Happy Sunday!

First, I’d like to apologize for not sending last week’s newsletter. I’m currently traveling in Japan and our flight from LA to Tokyo was delayed by 24 hours and that put my schedule into a tailspin. I’m happy to say everything is back on track now :)

In this issue, we’re diving into the hidden emotional block that could be sabotaging your manifestations—the mother wound. You’ll learn how it silently shapes your sense of worth, success, and abundance—and how healing it can finally unlock everything you've been calling in.

Enjoy!

Tomoko

🌸 Why You Might Be Struggling to Manifest (and Don’t Even Know It)

You’ve done it all—vision boards, affirmations, meditation, energy work.
But somehow, the life you’re calling in keeps staying just out of reach.

Here’s the truth no one tells you:
You can’t manifest from a foundation you don’t feel safe in.

🧬 The Hidden Root: The Mother Wound

The mother wound is the emotional pain we inherit—often unconsciously—from our mothers and maternal figures. It’s not about blame. It’s about awareness.

If you grew up feeling like love had to be earned, like you had to stay small to stay safe, or like your needs didn’t matter, those patterns may still be running in the background... blocking your manifestations.

💔 How the Mother Wound Silently Sabotages

Your subconscious shapes what you attract. And when the root system is tangled, everything built on top becomes shaky.

Common patterns linked to an unhealed mother wound:

• Feeling unworthy of ease, success, or abundance

• Dimming your light to avoid triggering others

• Believing there’s never enough—money, time, love

• Self-sabotaging just when things are going well

• Pushing away what you manifest once it arrives

• Feeling guilty for having more than your mother ever did

If any of that hits home… you’re not broken. You’re human. And you can heal.

🌱 What Healing Actually Looks Like

You don’t need to be “fully healed” to manifest. But you do need to become aware of the patterns—and start choosing differently.

Start here:

1. Recognize without blame.
This isn’t about making anyone the villain. It’s about interrupting the generational cycle with compassion.

2. Reparent yourself.
Speak to your inner child the way you wish your mother had. Give yourself the love and approval you’ve always craved.

3. Set boundaries that honor you.
Every “no” to self-abandonment is a “yes” to self-worth.

4. Feel the feelings.
Grief, anger, longing—these emotions hold wisdom. Let them move through you, not live inside you.

5. Rewrite your worthiness story.
Celebrate small wins. Let compliments land. Learn to receive without needing to “earn” it first.

✨ The Breakthrough

When the mother wound begins to heal, something shifts.
You stop forcing… and start allowing.
You stop settling… and start receiving.
You finally believe you’re worthy—and everything begins to flow.

Because the truth is:

You were never doing manifestation “wrong.”
You just needed to feel safe enough to receive.

Healing is the key. And you hold it.

You’ve always been worthy.
Now it’s time to start living like it.

Thank you for spending this time with me. Wherever you are on your journey—whether you're seeking healing, clarity, or simply a moment of peace—know that you're not alone. Keep listening to your heart, trust your inner wisdom, and take gentle steps forward.

With light and love,

Tomoko

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